Jennifer Lopez opens up about parting ways with Ben Affleck

Jennifer Lopez has finally spoken out about her breakup with Ben Affleck, acknowledging the sadness and fear that came with their split after just two years of marriage. In a bold leopard print outfit for Interview magazine’s latest cover, the 55-year-old singer opened up about the challenges she faced this year, without directly naming Ben. Affectionately known as ‘Bennifer’, the couple parted ways in April, with Jennifer filing for divorce on their two-year wedding anniversary in August.

Reflecting on her need to be alone once again after leaving Ben, Jennifer emphasized the importance of being whole before seeking something more complete. Despite the struggles, she expressed no regrets and admitted that the experience almost took a toll on her. As she moves forward, Jennifer asserted that she is not actively seeking a new relationship, focusing instead on her own well-being and growth.

In her candid interview for Interview magazine’s 55th anniversary special, Jennifer Lopez shared insights into her journey of self-discovery and the valuable lessons she continues to learn along the way.

Jennifer Lopez has broken her silence on her Ben Affleck split after two years of marriage

Jennifer Lopez has finally spoken out about her divorce from Ben Affleck after being married for two years.

The star, who modeled leopard print for the cover of Interview magazine to celebrate its 55th anniversary, said it was 'sad, scary'

The celebrity who posed in leopard print for Interview magazine’s 55th anniversary cover described the breakup as ‘difficult’ and ‘challenging.’ JLo expressed feelings of loneliness, fear, and sadness after the split. She emphasized the importance of finding happiness within oneself rather than relying on others for fulfillment. Reflecting on her experience, she acknowledged that personal growth is a continuous journey without a final destination. Despite setbacks and mistakes, she remains determined to keep evolving and learning from life’s challenges.

The diva looked sensational in animal print bikinis as she talked to Nikki Glaser about her crazy summer

The glamorous star rocked some fierce animal print bathing suits while chatting with Nikki Glaser about her eventful summer.

The Atlas actress talked about her life 'blowing up' in her face this year and the life lessons she still has to learn though she did not use Ben's name

The actress from Atlas opened up about how her life has completely turned upside down this year, revealing the valuable lessons she still needs to learn, even though she didn’t mention Ben by name.

Seen with Ben when they were engaged in 2003

She said she was happy in Toronto while promoting Ben's film Unstoppable. 'I felt really good. The movie¿s really beautiful. You do these things and then you forget, because they¿re in the can for so long, and you¿ve moved on to other projects, and I¿ve been taking time off, so I¿ve not been in that mindset'

In 2003, Jennifer was seen with Ben during their engagement, and she also attended the premiere of his movie Unstoppable at TIFF. Reflecting on her past experiences, Jennifer shared that it’s important to analyze each situation and understand your role in it, acknowledging the lessons that can be learned. Without mentioning her divorce from Ben, she admitted that she still had more to learn. Jennifer emphasized the importance of self-reflection and understanding the underlying emotions and beliefs that influence our decisions and behaviors. She emphasized the need to continuously look inward and take responsibility for our actions, rather than blaming others for our mistakes.

And then she said she needed to be alone again after leaving Ben: 'But you have to be healthy. You have to be complete, if you want something that¿s more complete'

After parting ways with Ben, she expressed her need for solitude once more, emphasizing the importance of being whole and healthy in order to find something truly fulfilling.

She added, 'You have to be good on your own. I thought I learned that, but I didn¿t. And then, this summer, I had to be like, ¿I need to go off and be on my own. I want to prove to myself that I can do that¿'

She emphasized the importance of being self-sufficient, sharing, “I thought I understood the concept, but realized I still had a lot to learn. This summer, I made the decision to spend time by myself. I wanted to challenge myself and demonstrate that I am capable of standing on my own two feet.”

When Nikki asked if that was 'hard,' JLo replied: 'Yes, it¿s f***ing hard!'

When Nikki inquired about the difficulty of the task, JLo responded with a resounding affirmation, exclaiming, “Yes, it’s damn hard!”

And she feels sad. 'It feels lonely, unfamiliar, scary. It feels sad. It feels desperate,' noted the Can't Get Enough singer

Feeling lonely, unfamiliar, and scared, the singer Can’t Get Enough expressed her sadness and desperation. She then touched on the importance of loving one’s flaws and setting boundaries in relationships. Lopez emphasized that true love involves helping each other grow and be better individuals within the safety of boundaries.

When Glaser suggested Lopez has set a new standard for future partners, she dismissed the idea, stating she’s not actively seeking anyone. She asserted that one doesn’t need a relationship to feel complete or happy, acknowledging that it took her 30 years to reach this understanding.

Despite facing negativity surrounding her divorce, Lopez remains resilient, although she admitted that hurtful comments can sometimes affect her. When asked about any regrets regarding her past marriage, she affirmed that the pain endured was not in vain.

As far as Ben's new film Unstoppable, in which she has a role, she said it is 'really beautiful.' 'I did the movie because it was such an inspirational story, and it was a Latino story'

Regarding Ben’s latest movie Unstoppable, in which she plays a role, she described it as ‘absolutely stunning.’ She decided to be a part of the film because she found the story highly inspiring and appreciated that it showcased Latino culture.

I didn’t waste a single moment. It could have easily been the end of me, but looking back, I realize that it was exactly what I needed. Thank you, God. I’m sorry it took me so long to understand. I should have learned my lesson sooner, but you had to hit me hard to make me see. I finally understand now. And that doesn’t mean I have everything figured out. I’m excited to be on my own, after years of facing challenges. Canceling my summer tour was a tough decision, but it allowed me to focus on myself, which was the best thing for me at that time.
Regarding Ben’s new film Unstoppable, in which I play a role, I found it truly beautiful. The story of Anthony Robles, a wrestler born with just one leg, is truly inspiring. Playing his young mother was a rewarding experience. I had the opportunity to watch the film with an audience at TIFF, and the response was overwhelmingly positive. It’s a powerful and uplifting story that I believe the world needs to hear right now.

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